We are taught from childhood that the man is not perfect, that man is naturally inclined to err, to make mistakes, again and again and again. But what they do not teach us never to know how to forgive after we have been wounded. Forgiving is the hardest thing to do, because we have to deal with our pride. And pride, poor us, is the worst of faults. And, I might add, even the most undervalued. It creeps crawling in the mind and takes root quickly, and once that has taken hold, it grows and grows and the only thing that remains is to find ways and above all the strength uprooted.
Forgiveness is something complex and beautiful at the same time. It 's something that very often we can not right to do, because we get stuck to the primitive stage of anger and no longer able to move forward, thus precluding many opportunities and many new roads. Unfortunately, or fortunately, there is no manual was delivered to us explaining what we do, what attitude to take to unlock from the situation and continue on our way. Forgiveness is something you learn to be able to practice with the experience, over time, but especially with the desire to overcome the little obstacles that we encounter, to go beyond small misunderstanding and move forward no matter what. But often, in fact many times, we do not succeed, because we're men, we are imperfect, and we are reluctant we are cowards because it is always easier to succumb to the understanding that reaching out to. But the important thing is to try, try and try again. Forgiveness frees us, makes us better and makes us feel good. So why not try?
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